Sri Swami Satchidananda in his wisdom would say,
"When you point your finger at someone whether mentally or physically...
~ there's one thumb that represents your belief (higher power),
~ there's one index finger that is you pointing at the object,
~ however there's three fingers pointing back at you, majority rules!"
~ there's one index finger that is you pointing at the object,
~ however there's three fingers pointing back at you, majority rules!"
A great time to think about what you need to learn from the situation aka spiritual lesson!